The good news is: we've finally gotten Terza to use the potty.
The additional good news: the kid is very intent on cleaning up after herself.
The bad news: that involves her emptying out her own potty. Which is the grossest mess ever.
The word shitstorm comes to mind.
It's tough because I don't want to discourage my self-starter from following through, flexing her independence muscles and aspiring to good hygiene. Nether do I want to have a Slip 'N Slide: Piss Edition experience every time I enter my bathroom.
She's so terrifically proud of herself:
"Mommy, I used the POTTY!!" she shrieks, running pantless into the kitchen.
I freeze in place, usually in the middle of draining the pasta for mac n' cheese.
"That's great, honey," I manage positively enough: "Let me come see."
The Jaws soundtrack plays as I follow her down the hallway to the bathroom, silently repeating the mantra, "Please let it be pee. Please let it be pee."
"See Mommy?" she announces: "I put it in the big potty!"
By which she means, she deposited 10% of whatever was collected in the potty into the toilet. The rest is scattered all over the floor, running down the front of the toilet and, somehow, splashed over the side of the adjoining sink.
"Honey," I sigh: "I've told you already. Mommy needs to empty the potty. Thank you for your help but you are not allowed to empty the potty. Mommy does it. Mommy. Not Terza. Mommy. Got it?"
Then, as I mop bodily fluids off the floor, we role play what she'll do next time she uses the potty and she obligingly pretends to call out, "MOMMY! You have to empty the potty!" and I think she's got it. And then an hour later, we repeat the scene all over again.
Clearly, she needs more supervision in the bathroom. Clearly, I cannot provide it. There's homework to help with and dinner to make and emails to respond to and the other messes Terza makes to clean up.
What I should do is build her gross motor skills so as to improve her accuracy. Have her practice pouring cups of water into a bowl, until her percentage in/ percentage out ratio tips. or else just cover the bathroom in garbage bags.